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Real Support for Girls in Sports Isn’t Seasonal. It’s Safe and Steady.

People are paying attention.Not just to what is being said now, but to what has been said—and what has not—over time.And one truth keeps

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People are paying attention.

Not just to what is being said now,
but to what has been said—and what has not—over time.

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And one truth keeps rising to the surface:

If we are serious about protecting sport, we must be serious about showing up for girls.


Girls Have Been Carrying More Than the Game
Before any policy, before any headline, girls have been navigating:

Safety risks

  • Harassment in locker rooms, travel, and training spaces
  • Coaches and authority figures misusing power
  • Pressure to stay silent to keep opportunities

Public perception

  • Strength questioned as “too much”
  • Success reframed as suspicious
  • Bodies discussed instead of performance

Funding gaps

  • Fewer resources, fewer sponsorships
  • Lower pay and prize money
  • Programs cut first when budgets shrink

Community support gaps

  • Less media coverage
  • Fewer development pipelines
  • Encouragement that fades as competition increases

These are not new issues.
Girls have been navigating them quietly, steadily, for years.


When “Protection” Shows Up Late, People Notice
In sports, we’ve seen a pattern in how institutions and media respond to problems. We have not seen mainstream media be so unsupportive of making sports more fair.

After doping scandals involving:

  • Ben Johnson
  • Marion Jones ( I read her book and saw her on Oprah? I think it was Oprah)
  • Tyson Gay

The message became:

  • “This proves testing is working”
  • “The system caught the cheater”
  • “Sport is cleaning itself up”

After Lance Armstrong, there were headlines and media narratives declaring:

  • “New era of clean cycling”
  • “The sport has turned a corner”
  • “More aggressive testing than ever”

After cases involving:

  • Alex Rodriguez
  • Manny Ramirez

The messaging became:

  • “Stronger testing policies”
  • “Zero tolerance”
  • “The game is cleaner now”

Even when systems were exposed as compromised, the story quickly became about restoration.

In cases involving:

  • Jon Jones
  • Anderson Silva

The message:

  • “Gold standard testing”
  • “No one is above the rules”

But when the International Olympic Committee announced ……there has been a resurgence around the narrative that Black girls need protecting from a cheek swab. At some point powerful media shifted their loyalty and now they are against testing to keep sports fair. After the books, documentaries, reality show mentions, and other exposes…well, it’s a bad thing now. That’s odd.


A Note on Learning

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Many people, including Marion Jones, have spoken openly about growth, accountability, and what they learned after difficult chapters.

In that same spirit, we can all learn here.

Not defensively. Honestly.

What We Can Learn Right Now

  • Girls are not a side conversation. They are central. They deserve to centered.
  • Girls’ openness and adaptability are strengths—not invitations to be overlooked or taken advantage of.
  • Protection –physical and emotional– must be visible before crisis, not only after controversy.
  • Consistency builds trust. Sudden urgency raises questions.
  • Fairness cannot exist without dignity.
  • Listening to girls early prevents harm later.
  • Silence from institutions teaches girls they are on their own.
  • Real support includes resources, safety, and respect—not just rules. Investment.
  • Communities shape outcomes. When communities show up, girls thrive.

The Core Truth
Girls have always been showing up.

Training. Competing. Enduring.
Finding ways forward even when the path was uneven.

The question now is not whether girls are ready.

The question is whether the systems around them are ready to show up fully.

Not just when the spotlight turns.

But when it is quiet.
When it is local.
When it is hard.


For RosasChildren
This is a call to safe adults, educators, advocates, and communities:

  • Show up for girls early
  • Show up for girls consistently
  • Show up for girls where they actually live and compete

Because when girls are supported, protected, and resourced:

they don’t just participate in sports—they transform them.