Category: Boundaries

NXIVM: The Story Behind Why We Teach Children About “Proving” Loyalty
Sometimes the clearest lessons for children come from watching what ha [...]

When Love Becomes a Hostage Situation: The Truth About Threats of Self-Harm
Did you know that threatening self-harm is a common tactic in coercive [...]
Twelve Anti-Bullying Principles We Should Aspire to for Girls
Anti-bullying policies exist to protect children from intimidation, hu [...]
The Weaponization of DARVO: How Society and the Justice System Punish Black Girls for Surviving
This piece comes from someone I follow on Substack- The Way She Came. [...]

Helping Teens Navigate Truth-Telling: Why It’s Crucial & How We Can Support Them
updated from March 12 2025
Teenagers are in a unique and often challe [...]
Questions to Uphold Girls Boundaries in Sports
Supreme Court's latest ruling on Title IX:
Some states have passed la [...]

10 Ways to Raise Children Without Conditioning Them for Compliance
If we want to raise bold, self-aware, and safe children, we must stop [...]

Lessons WE Should Have Learned from School Volunteer Deonte Carraway
"We gotta stop throwing our kids to the wolves because the wolves tell [...]

Rest in Power Zaria Burgess: This Sentence is All We Have Now
This poor baby. These cases and victims don't inspire widespread outra [...]
Boundary Blur Bingo: How Adults Teach Girls to Doubt Their Safety
Children learn from the way adults respond to discomfort.
When a girl [...]