We need to talk about something that keeps getting quietly shuffled under the rug:You do not solve a boy’s hurt feelings, rejection, loneliness, or co
We need to talk about something that keeps getting quietly shuffled under the rug:
You do not solve a boy’s hurt feelings, rejection, loneliness, or confusion by handing him access to a girl.
This is not compassion.
This is not healing.
This is not justice.
This is grooming.
This is coercion.
This is how girls get hurt.
Girls are not therapy animals.
Girls are not test dummies for emotional growth.
Girls are not consolation prizes, confidence boosters, or self-esteem projects.
They are people—with their own needs, their own feelings, their own dreams, their own right to say no, to walk away, to be alone, to be free.
Safe spaces for girls exist for a reason.
They are not about exclusion.
They are about boundaries.
They are about violence prevention.
They are about emotional and physical safety.
And yet, time after time, we are asked to open those doors—not for the good of girls, but for the fragile comfort of boys and men who haven’t been taught how to sit with their own discomfort.
When boys feel rejected, confused, or angry, they need support systems that help them process those feelings without harming others.
They need tools.
They need mentorship.
They need truth.
They need spaces designed for them to grow—without requiring girls to make themselves smaller, quieter, more accommodating, or less free.
Let’s be clear:
A boy in pain does not automatically equal a threat. But a system that teaches boys that access to girls is their right, their remedy, or their reward?
That system is the threat.
At RosasChildren.com, we believe in the equal humanity of every child. But equal does not mean identical. And it certainly does not mean sacrificing the safety of one group to soothe the discomfort of another.
We protect girls here.
With truth.
With boundaries.
With love.
And we invite you to do the same.
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